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Divorce is one of the most stressful life events you can experience. I know not just because the research says so, but because I’ve experienced it too. When I got divorced nearly 10 years ago, I wished there was a single resource I could turn to to help me make it through my divorce and all the life changes that came with it, but there wasn’t. I had to go through my painful transition with bits and pieces of help from various people, but I was charting my own path completely alone. I developed The Functional Divorce Program so you can have someone work with you through the entire process of what is often a confusing and painful transition. You don’t have to do this alone. To begin the program, I ask each client to complete some divorce adjustment assessments so we can identify exactly which of the 5 facets of divorce (Social, Emotional, Legal, Financial, and Functional – your SELFF Quotient) we need to focus on first. Then we customize the Functional Divorce program so that you can begin alleviating the stress you are feeling in that particular area and accelerate your successful transition from married to single. When you were married, you were living with restrictions either imposed by your former spouse or by yourself so you could live with your former spouse. I call this the box. Once you are feeling less like your life is an uncontrollable rollercoaster ride, we begin to explore what post-divorce life could be like. I encourage you to be open and experiment, to peek over the edge of the box you’ve been living in and see what is out there. During this discovery process, your ideal post-divorce life will gradually begin to come into focus. As it does, we will break your vision for your life down into specific goals that are realistic and achievable. Then we will create an action plan which I use to help keep you motivated, accountable, focused and able to create your ideal post-divorce life. |